College is arguably one of the best places one can pass through in the course of their lifetime. Leave alone the education aspect of the institution but the social life one enjoys there. Without social knowledge and the free interaction with people of all genders, races and tribes education may be useless. I’m not trying to say that students go to college to enjoy life and have fun. Remember education is the key to success. My point is that education alone is not worth your success in life it must be complemented with other life aspects/skills. Due to this reason a consensus ground need to be reached between the student and the parent.
Payment of tuition fees
Each and every parent is happy to give their children nothing but the best. This is why parents toil hard to pay for the tuition fees in colleges for their sons and daughters. In very rare cases do parents fail to pay the fees. This may be due to several issues, for instance family disagreement or poor living conditions
Students should always learn to appreciate the sacrifice their guardians/parents go through in order to pay their fee. If your fee fails to be paid by them, then you should never give up. Even the darkest situations in one’s life have got some light in them. This is the reason why you should put your skills and talents into to task. You are capable as a student, to hustle for your own fee. A good example is, engaging yourself in online writing, you can even get a job as a sales person. By doing this your education levels keep on soaring to greater heights day by day.
Involvement in social activities
Most of our parents are of the opinion that only education took us to college. By the way work without play and fun may be disastrous. This is the reason why parents should be free minded and let their children participate in co-curriculum activities.
As students you also got your duty to play. You should engage in co-curriculum activities, having your limits in mind. In these activities college students get to discover their talents. Most of these talents are inborn but need a little bit of nurturing for them to shine. Due to this reason you should be willing to listen to corrections. In addition if your talents shines best while in college, at most of the time students are tempted to abandon their studies. Although your talent, for instance singing, dancing or even acting may earn you some extra cash you should learn to balance. Both education and the talent are important, but you should learn to allocate quality time both to your studies and your talents.
This aspect of time allocation ensures that you grow both physically, mentally and socially. This is the reason why in campus parents should leave the students to make decisions on their own and in turn the students should make wise decisions which they will not regret in the future.
Choosing of the appropriate profession and college
Before joining college this is the most critical part. Both the student and the parent need to sit down and reason together. This reasoning should entail choosing the right institution and the right profession for the student to be. Some research may need to be done and findings evaluated.
In choosing the right profession for the student, the qualifications of the student should be considered. This is because not all faculties require the same qualifications. In some faculties students who are good in sciences are needed while in others, students who are best in humanities are needed. A good grasp of a certain language may also be required. In addition the talents, hobbies and likes of the student should be considered. For instance if a student is good in dancing, acting and poetry then an arts course suits him best. On the other hand if the student is good in mathematical issues an economic profession may suit him best.
In choosing the right institution for the student, quite a lot needs to be considered. As people argue, money is the determinant, the fee charged by the college should be considered. The best institutions charge a fee which is fairly not too low not too high. The financial capability of both the student and the parent decides which institution to attend. The second factor to be considered is the environment in which the institution is located and the resources available. Both students and guardians prefer an institution with abundant resources and in which security is tight. Life comes first before anything else.
Choosing a Recognized Institution
Many colleges have cropped up almost everywhere in the world. Due to this reason both the parent and the student need to be very careful while choosing the college. You may end up choosing an institution which is not accredited by the government. This automatically means that your certificates will be deemed illegal too
In order to choose a good institution your intelligence needs to be of high quality. One of you or a person you trust should have perfect knowledge of the institution. If this is not the case then you need to do a thorough research online. In addition if unsatisfied you may choose to visit the institutions physically. This may be quite expensive but it is worth the expense.
You may also seek help from professionals in the sector. Attending career forums may also help you in choosing a well credited learning institution. Seeking relevant help from the various government bodies is also another solution.
To sum up this article, both the college students and the parents need to have a very mutual relationship. They should learn to listen to each other and correct each other where need be. Both parties should be at a consensus on which profession to take and the location of the college to attend. Education is very important.
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